19-10-2025 09:44 PM
19-10-2025 09:44 PM
Glad it's less chaotic. It's a good way to put it even if things aren't that quiet @avant-garde
Did you go to church today?
19-10-2025 10:14 PM
19-10-2025 10:14 PM
Yeah, only went to one service today though, then had one of my regular events which I just got home from
21-10-2025 01:17 PM
21-10-2025 01:17 PM
I have a really bad stress headache for my next meeting... It's with the person from church that told me how to have my house...
21-10-2025 01:35 PM
21-10-2025 01:35 PM
@avant-garde oh sweet, I'm sorry to hear. Sitting with you and sending you hugs ❤️
21-10-2025 07:13 PM
21-10-2025 07:13 PM
Hello my sweet @avant-garde, been thinking about you ❤️. Hope the meeting went ok and that you've had a chance for some self care since then. Here for you always beautiful ❤️.
22-10-2025 01:38 AM
22-10-2025 01:38 AM
Processing a lot of emotions...
The meeting was grah but I have the opportunity to educate her now.
She said I need more humility because I don't ask for or accept help. I have copious evidential articles that explain how the need for control and dismissal of my self worth are a defensive mechanism that can be portrayed as pride but it's actually a mask for a deep seated and intense fear.
I may however be a bit arrogant when I'm right.
22-10-2025 02:30 AM
22-10-2025 02:30 AM
@avant-garde sitting with you my sweet and sending you hugs ❤️.
I can understand your reasons and i think it's valid that you have a mask and fear given the trauma that you've been through.
23-10-2025 01:10 PM
23-10-2025 02:00 PM
23-10-2025 02:00 PM
aww have fun on your adventure, John suits the outdoors space!! @avant-garde let us know what you both get up to!!
23-10-2025 02:26 PM
23-10-2025 02:26 PM
@avant-garde awwww i hope you and John have a good adventure. Would love to hear about what you two get up to if you want to share later 😊.
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